First of all, let me say WELCOME!! We are so glad to have you here.

Being new is one of the hardest places to be, because you’re using up a lot of your bravery just sucking at something new, and then you have to integrate socially into a new community that may have some social norms you’re not used to. I remember what it was like. But at the same time, my new phase was one of the most exciting times because every class, every social dance, every new connection was full of possibilities.

Try out as many social dance classes as you can in all the styles — Salsa, Bachata, Modern/Sensual Bachata, Kizomba, and Zouk. Find which teachers you vibe with best and which styles you like most. Our studios/companies include: For the Love of Bachata, Steel City Kizomba, Salsa Pittsburgh, Los Sabrosos, Cross Body Dance & Movement, Salsa412, and Zouk412.
Go to all the socials. Figure out what DJs inspire you and which environments make you feel at home. (Check out www.salsapittsburgh.com if you want the full lineup)
Meet people in classes - it will be easier to find friends at the socials! Check out some social tips here.
Ask people to dance. Regardless of whether you prefer to lead or follow, you can ask people for a dance yourself. It is very common, and it’s the only way to guarantee that you ever make it out there. If you want to spread the love, notice who also is on the sidelines and ask them.
Be patient. Growing your skills as a dancer takes time — plan for it to take a few years of consistent effort. Also, building friendships takes time too! Take it slowly and allow your relationships with others to build naturally. In time, you can have all the things you want.
Always remember you’re doing this for fun! Don’t take yourself so seriously that you forget you’re here to enjoy yourself. As long as you’re having a good time with those you dance with, you’re doing it right. :)
Prioritize dancing well before dancing fancy. Trying out fancy moves before we have solid foundations can be dangerous, and we don’t need anyone to get hurt! Likewise, if the dance floor is full, dance smaller and more simply to keep your partner as safe as possible.
If you have a problem with someone being inappropriate (touching, comments, etc), report it to the organizer. It is our job to protect you, and yes, unfortunately sometimes people with poor intentions find their way into our communities. But with your help, we can keep our communities safe by having conversations and holding boundaries.